I'm not fighting to stay by calling bethel. There's nothing more important than a spotless reputation according to these goons. Just having their names mentioned at bethel will make them sick. They were freaking out on me when I told them I had spokent to the co about how they treated us and they wanted me to tell him how lovingly they had treated me. Not! They didn't even ask us why we weren't going to our meetings. I'm starting to think that noone gets asked that at their jc or shepherding calls why they are not going. In my case they had to make it look like we did something bad so they could shut us up with what we saw and knew with the one family they keep covering up.
Once this is done with the phonecall to bethel then we will go away again. It's everytime they go to do something behind our backs then they just poked this bear and she's angry. Hubbys already df'd and I'm on public reproof. Neither one of us have been at a meeting for a year and a half so why don't they leave us the hell alone? Do they still have to try and df me? Well, I asked them and the co to df me and they didn't so what do they want? We've never bothered with anyone except when it came to hosting a speaker for lunch, then we would have them and another family or widow over. Didnt go to their parties just funerals and weddings but not to the receptions. I just don't get it.
They also made sure they spoke bad of us to all our customers that are witlesses and the bethel. None of them buy from us now but that's ok for we are doing great as far as how we live.